4 'red flags' that might mean your relationship is in trouble (via CNBCMakeIt)
that can turn them off on a first date. When you're well into a serious partnership, though, red flags can be harder to identify.
But there are some behaviors that might signal your partner is unhappy or that you two should have a serious talk about the state of your relationship.1. You feel like you're raising your partner It can be about small things, like when to get to the airport, or big ones like how to budget for a house.Growing Self Counseling & Coaching"I think that in itself can be a bit of a red flag in a relationship," she says. "Not because a partner needs to be raised, but because they are with someone who thinks that they do."You think their way of being is "not good enough," Bobby says.
You don't feel safe unless they do things your way. "If you need your partner to be doing certain things in certain ways in order for you to feel safe and happy, that is a sign of overdependence," Bobby says.are renowned clinical psychologists and researchers. The two have interviewed more than 3,000 couples and followed some of them for as long as 20 years.