'A senior colleague at work wants casual sex - I’m offended he thinks I’m 'easy''
In Lalalaletmeexplain's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems.
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We get along well but do you think it will change his opinion of me if I agree? I definitely wouldn’t want a relationship with him but can’t help feeling slightly gutted/offended that he doesn’t want more than sex from me, like I’m not good enough or he thinks I’m ‘easy’ or something. My gut is telling me not to, but I have to admit the idea does excite me. He's in a senior role and always has my back at work, so I value our friendship and I don’t want to ruin things.Abort mission.
There's a lot of research into the fact that casual sex tends to work less well for heterosexual women. The likelihood of a cis het woman having an orgasm during a one-night stand is around 4%, compared to 86% for cis het men. So, we already know that it’s almost guaranteed that he'll end the night feeling sexually satisfied, whereas there's a high chance that you won’t.
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