We enjoy doing things together – hiking, biking, going out to dinner, being with friends and family, going to concerts – but in the end our marriage isn’t very satisfying for me on a personal level.
Dear Looking: It sounds as if you already have contentment.I am impressed by your extreme patience during your impressively long marriage.You asked about being a “better husband” one time and were shot down.
When you invite your partner into therapy and they decline, you should go by yourself, because the very act of wanting someone else to change means that you need to change, too.Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for 10 years. I told him that this is cheating because he is married, and he lied to me about deleting these accounts.I say that this is cheating because he is having sexual conversations with other women.Dear Upset: Your husband is engaging in secret relationships with other women. Whether these are physical or exclusively virtual, I assume this makes you feel devalued. You don’t seem to trust one another.
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