Dear Amy: I’ve been dating a married woman for seven months.
She told me many times that she and her husband are trying to split amicably, but they have two children, so leaving was not an option. She said she is in an open marriage.
I saw she was sending provocative photos and texting the man in question — the guy I already asked her not to speak to.Now we’re at the point she has blocked my number, won’t talk to me, and has told everyone in the office that I went psycho on her. So now, of course, I’m the bad guy, because she is very well liked by our co-workers.
I have told her countless times if she wanted to see other people, she was free to do so, but I would not be a part of that. She denied that she wanted to be with other people. She said she loved me and only wanted to be with me.Did she ever love me? Why would she act like this? Any advice for me?Dear Wronged: First, an observation: Your workplace sounds like a middle-school whirlpool.
My advice is for you to put your head down, get your work done, and — when you’re emotionally ready — use the lessons learned here to move on with a wiser, hearty and healthy vengeance. You start by thanking her for keeping you company and being helpful with your child. Tell her, “Now that the world seems to be opening up, we’re going to want to have some weekends on our own. Can you work with us to come up with a new plan?”
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