I am terrified that she will become so obese that she cannot find a new job or boyfriend – if either of those disappear.
She has a good job and a devoted boyfriend who is living with her in a house that we helped her buy.She was a normal weight until she gained about 30 pounds in college and after she joined AA to quit drinking.
She has done several extreme fad diets, including vegan and keto, but now has thrown herself into a carb-heavy diet and has a BMI of over 35.Six months ago, she saw a doctor who recommended bariatric surgery, which she refused.I’ve read in your column that I can’t speak to her about this since she is fully aware of it, will resent me, and only she can change it.
How and why has your daughter’s BMI come up in conversation? You are either bringing up this topic, or she is sharing these details with you, perhaps testing your response. Don’t bite that hook. The problem? My wife and I are both convinced that our son and Kris are not destined to make it, long term.We believe our son is going to ask us to be honest with him about his relationship, and we are not sure how to respond.Dear Parents: Your son might be asking earnestly, but I suggest that you respond extremely carefully. Start with this question: “What is it you’re looking for from us?”
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