Glean the positives: you should feel pumped that someone found you so attractive, they were all over you. That’s confidence boosting.
Dear Lisi: I went on a date last night for the first time in six months. We found each other on a dating app and started chatting. We’re similar in age , both divorced for more than three years, both with teenage children. Her photos showed an active, attractive woman who looked natural and wholesome.
To my surprise, as dinner started to wind down, she came on to me fairly aggressively in the restaurant. I managed to dial it down, but as soon as we were alone outside, she pushed herself up against me and forcefully kissed me. I literally had to disentangle myself.What the heck was that all about?Great description, of both your date and your situation. You’re right – she’s not your person. But as you thought, you could have still enjoyed the date. She obviously had other things on her mind.
My concern is that we’re still young and not even married. If this is happening now, I can’t imagine the future. What do you think?I think you’ve hit a rut. Working from home has many advantages, however, there are disadvantages as well. For example, working from home means you can stay in your pyjamas all day . That’s not usually a turn on. Personally, I prefer my date to be freshly showered and in clean clothes. That’s more enticing to rip them off.
“Drunk people cannot consent to sex. If the letter-writer was sober while their female friend was drunk, they raped her.”
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