“Some people just aren’t driven by a need for sex.”
, and my husband and I have been married for two years. We haven’t had penetrative sex, but I take care of him, and I use toys. Eventually, I would like to have penetrative sex, but there’s no rush for us. :)""A combination of repressed Catholic guilt, childhood trauma, and sexual abuse, and low libidos mean that sex happens somewhat infrequently , BUT when it does, it’s sweet and enjoyable for both of us. Some people just aren’t driven by a need for sex.
"However, since he is not ace himself, that does mean some compromising happens. We communicate honestly and with love to keep each other fulfilled and happy. I can’t imagine being with anyone else!""I've always known I was ace, but I allowed myself to be convinced there was something 'wrong' with me. As a result, I said 'yes' a lot, when I really meant 'no.' I was working through that with a professional when I met my now-spouse in 2010.
"Sex is just better now when we don’t have it as often. We love each other completely and have so many other ways we show it to one another outside of physical intimacy.""When me and hubby started dating in college, it was more like a couple times a day. ... Now in our 40s, each of us has had a few medical issues that have contributed to low libidos; plus, we just aren't 20 anymore. But I am in love with him more now than I ever have been.
"Ours is by far the most healthy relationship we've ever been in, and it turns out that neither of us has a particularly high sex drive, in truth. Sex was more of a tool for us, albeit a rather unhealthy one, as I mentioned before. We are expecting our first child in March, and. Madly in love with this woman and would do absolutely anything for her and our family.""My husband has a high libido, and mine is low, likely because of trauma and abuse.
"The sex is amazing when we have it every couple of weeks, and better than it’s ever been after 20 years. It’s not frequent enough for me, but my spouse knows I watch porn and take care of myself, and doesn’t care. I just do that on my own time.""We currently live 1,000 miles apart. Going on two years long distance. We call and talk often and support each other through bad days with loving texts. We make up for the lack of regular sex when we visit each other.
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