But it’s their own fault I’m not at the preschool graduation.
This is not the only story I could tell like this; I could write a book. Our kids have been ignored now that our siblings’ grandkids have arrived. Consequently, we’ve decided that because our kids have been ignored, we will not celebrate the next generation’s events.
Our relatives seem puzzled that we’re not as enthralled with the preschool graduations and first birthdays of their grandkids, but, hey, where were they? Funny thing is, they seem to believe my adult children didn’t notice they were being ignored. My children have little interaction with the “loving” relatives who snubbed them.No, you are human. However, more honest communication with these relatives when it was happening might have averted the schism created by their self-centered behavior. Your situation is regrettable, and I can’t blame your children — or you — for feeling the way you all do.I am a grieving mother.
My life will never be the same. I know I need to see a counselor because this has gotten the best of me and I don’t know how to move forward. On top of that, my sister died two months ago and I can’t sleep. Please help me.I am so sorry for the tragic loss of not only your beloved son, but also your sister. A tombstone for your son’s grave may have to wait, because it is most important that you make an effort to take care of yourself for a while.
If you haven’t joined a grief support group, please consider it. There is also a support group, the National Organization of Parents of Murdered Children , that can provide you the emotional support you need. If you have a physician, it’s important that you inform them about your sleep problems. Considering the double dose of trauma you have experienced, your doctor shouldn’t be surprised and may be able to provide medication to help. Please write again and let me know how you are doing. I care.
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