An aunt eager to build relationships with her family says they are overwhelmed by her constant invitations.
A great aunt wishes to spend more time with her family, but they say she is too eager with the invites.My nephew, by marriage, has a large family. I deeply love each one of their children. We live in the same state but a couple hours away . I try to create events for us to see each other -- meet here, we can do this or that, attend special shows together.
The problem is I may invite them and the other relatives on that side to 10-15 things throughout the year. They may accept two. They complain that I invite too much. I’m trying to find things they would like. My desire is to build a strong relationship with their children. I’m at a TOTAL loss!!You sound very caring and thoughtful with nothing but good intentions. That said, your family members have expressed feeling overwhelmed by your invitations.
Relationships are two-way streets, and the only thing we can control is how we show up for the people we love. Hopefully, as these relationships gradually grow, your family will be more receptive to your invitations and put more effort into building bonds with you.
Australia Latest News, Australia Headlines
Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.
Dear Annie: I’m engaged but not sure I can stop cheatingDear Annie: I'm engaged to a wonderful woman, but I don't think I'm ready to end my relationships on the side.
Read more »
Dear Annie: Introverted widow wishes well-meaning neighbors would stop inviting her outWidow keeps saying no, but neighbors insist she needs to get out of the house. She seeks advice from Ask Annie.
Read more »
Dear Annie: How do I tell my neighbors I want to be left alone?I am embarrassed by continually saying no, explaining that it is NOT personal to them. I just prefer my quiet lifestyle.
Read more »
Dear Annie: I can’t stop cheating on my girlfriend even though we’re now engagedIn today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane advises a reader to rethink his relationship status and be honest with his girlfriend when it comes to being ready to get married.
Read more »
Dear Annie: How do I tell my neighbors I want to be left alone?Advice from Annie Lane.
Read more »
Dear Annie: My husband’s big and small lies are eroding faith in 9-year marriageAfter being married for nine years, a wife asks Annie what to do after multiple circumstances that have broken her trust.
Read more »