I have slept with men and women, but have only had one orgasm. I like the idea of sex but don’t enjoy it in the moment. What’s going on?
creating a knee-shaking experience for my partnersecondary school, I was never sexually attracted to anyonethis really is the issue.
You have got way ahead of yourself by skipping some formative sexual steps, such as learning exactly how your body works through self-pleasuring. After that step is mastered, it is easier to move on to sex with someone else – since you can then take responsibility for your own pleasure and impart important information to your partner regarding how you like to be touched, caressed, and so on.
Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. If you would like advice from Pamela on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to
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