I’m A Bisexual Woman In A Monogamous Relationship With A Man “I’m stuck being a bisexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a man. And it feels like being trapped.”
The problem was that I’d never really mentioned it to him before. I mean, I might make a comment or two about thinking an actress was hot, or how I had this college roommate and best friend with red-gold curls and a body like Venus de Milo who waslikedThe problem was that I really didn’t have a self-concept of myself as bisexual either. I’m bi. I’m also picky and wasn’t interested in a lot of women, so this left me with my own feelings to sort through and come to terms with.I became.
Then a friend in one of my writing groups dared me, while I was writing other erotica, to write some lesbian erotica: girl/girl fiction, we call it. “Sure, whatever,” I said. So I gave it a try. And it was. It was really good. Everyone loved it. So I wrote a sequel. I wrote another sequel. I wrote a series and I started to get pretty envious of the stuff going on between my characters. I started to want that stuff for myself.
He flipped out. He said it would hurt him deeply. He said that when you got married, you were faithful, no matter what. He said that the different anatomy didn’t matter. He said he knew I was angry and felt like he was controlling my sexuality, but that was the end of it, because we were married, agreed to monogamy, and he would be deeply hurt. Of course, I could do whatever I wanted, but it would be cheating on him.Which means that I figured this part of my sexuality out too late.
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