Being around extended family may trigger your own intense emotions, blinding you to your kids’ needs in the moment. So talk to your teens about how you can best support them well before a family gathering. Create a rescue plan with our tips in mind.
Ask them, “What really irritates you about Grandma?” Understanding how your children feel will help you to redirect Grandma’s attention.for what your children can do when relatives cross personal boundaries. Develop talking points and have teens practice them. Determine when you should step in, if needed.with your teens, such as polite greetings and eye contact.
Coach relatives on ways to engage successfully with your teens, so they can connect on some level. For example, when confirming plans with your extended family, mention movies your children love, activities or sports they’re participating in, or a new book series they started reading. Also, be sure to notice when your kids help with tasks and show initiative — perhaps they set the dinner table or hung up relatives’ coats. Pay attention to what they do right and offer a high-five, a thumbs-up, a hug, or thanks. This encourages teens to continue positive behaviors.
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