'I'm saying that's not necessarily a red flag, and, in fact, makes you a normal human person.'
The comment read: "Sorry, but no, that means they're not focusing on our relationship but their idea with others. Just doesn't make sense to me if you're with me."
After watching these two TikTok videos, I wanted to learn more, so I reached out to Jeff. He explained that he completely understands why this advice might be triggering for some."I think we all want to believe that our partner will only have eyes for us. We’ve been conditioned to believe that if someone truly loves you, they’ll be 100% devoted to you in every way. This message is reinforced through Hollywood and fairy tales from a really young age.
it makes sense why some people couldn't imagine having a partner who's in touch with these thoughts or feelings.Jeff emphasized that whether or not it’s a good thing, we've been conditioned from a very young age to judge whether someone is attractive or not."We are constantly judging as we move throughout our day," he told BuzzFeed."Sometimes, we notice our thoughts and sometimes we don’t.
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